Love
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Bisexuality and Monogamy
Introduction Bisexuality is a sexual orientation that often faces misconceptions and stereotypes, one of which is the assumption that bisexuality inherently implies non-monogamy or a preference for multiple partners; however, just like gay and straight, bisexuality does not determined one's choices. I can tell you that many bisexuals live happy and fulfilling lives within monogamous relationships. Challenging Stereotypes It's essential to recognize and challenge stereotypes that suggest bisexuals are inherently non-monogamous or unfaithful. These stereotypes undermine the individual's ability to choose their relationship structure, including monogamy. Communication is Key For any relationship to thrive, communication is absolutely essential. This holds true for monogamous relationships involving bisexual individuals as well. Open…
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Let’s talk a little Self-Love
I know that any of us who are part of the LGBTQ+ community suffer abuse from others, especially those from within the church; however, I am also convinced that much of the abuse we experience comes from ourselves. Many of us suck at experiencing self-love. Either we don't know how to do it. Perhaps we don't know what it even looks like or should look like. I get it. I have struggled with that at times myself. But, I know that without it, we can never become the person God created us to be. We can never succeed in life the way that we want. We can never attract to…
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Table Talks: Honoring those lost at Club Q
This is a very short, and modified, episode of Coffee with Keith. It is not the scheduled episode but one I recorded from the heart. I wanted to just speak to the horrific event that happened at Club Q in Colorado Springs. I tried not to ramble but I must confess that it was a hard one to cut. The entire community mourns and for many, their days are now much more fearful. I get it. So, thank you for listening to this old bi guy share from his heart. In memory of Kelly Loving, Daniel Ashton, Derrick Rump, Ashley Pough, and Raymond Green Vance. May God bless us all. …
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Table Talk with Dr Justin Meier: From Fundamentalist to Safe Space, Affirming Pastor
You know...I believe that life is a journey. I think you are going to enjoy the journey that my guest today had. He is The Rt. Rev. Dr. Justin Meier, PHD and he is a Trauma Informed and Resilience Building Therapist, Professor, Denominational Director of Church Planting and Anglican Bishop. Bishop Meier's church and dioceses are fully open and affirming but as you will hear, he himself was not always so. Now, he works tirelessly to provide that safe space and spiritual direction to those within his church and without. You will love his spirit, his insight, and his heart for service. So, grab that cup of coffee, have a…
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Table Talks with Zach W. Lambert: From Straight Southern Baptist Child to Affirming Pastor and Ally
On today's episode, I invite Zach W. Lambert. Zach is the Lead Pastor and founder of Restore Austin, a church in urban Austin, Texas. He holds a Masters of Theology and serves on the boards of Restore Houston, Louder than Silence (a non-profit for survivors of sexual violence), and the Austin Church Planting Network. Zach and his wife, Amy, met each other in the 6th grade, fell in love at 17, and got married at 21. They love watching live music, discovering local Mexican food places, and playing with their two boys. Today, we hear about Zach's journey from Southern Baptist Child to welcoming and inclusive pastor in Austin, Texas. …
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Table Talks with Pastor Danny Lybarger: What it really means to be INCLUSIVE
I am so excited to welcome Pastor Danny Lybarger on to the podcast today. Danny is the planting pastor of The Well, a United Methodist Church plant that meets at a Brewery in Defiance, MO. His vision for our church began years ago with a simple passion - to create compelling spaces that engaged those who feel far from God. The Well's vision is to spark a God-sized movement through which we see 100% of our region move into a transformative relationship with Jesus. A major part of accomplishing that vision is creating compelling and inclusive spaces for ALL people. Danny and his wife, Annie have three kiddos (Knox, JoJo & Gracie)…
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Table Talks with Candice Czubernat, LGBTQ Christian Therapist and founder of The Christian Closet
In this episode, I have the privalege of chatting with Candace Czubernat who has been a therapist for 17 years and is the founder of the LGBTQ affirming counseling and coaching practice, The Christian Closet as well as the teletherapy organization Progressive Christian Counseling. In both ministries, she and her team meet with people from all over the world for online telehealth sessions as they navigate the many intersections of life with a Christian faith. Candice is a graduate of The Moody Bible Institute and The Seattle School of Theology and Psychology. She identifies as a lesbian and a Christian. She lives in a small mountain town in southern California…
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The Journey from Evangelical to Bisexual Pastor and Life Coach: A conversation with Brandy Kizer
Today, my special guest is Life Coach and Pastor, Brandy Kizer. Brandy is an American born southern girl, with sweet tea running through her veins. Her greatest passion is making it impossible for others to not know Jesus. After work hours, you can probably find Brandy tucked away reading, at a gem show, or planning her next big adventure. In this episode, we chat about her journey from being a Southern Baptist Church girl in Alabama to a missionary working in Los Angeles to now, an engaged bisexual life coach and pastor residing in Canada. It's quiet a journey so hang on. I really think you will enjoy my chat…
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Advice for the Christian Parent of a LGBTQ+ Child
Matt Linden knows what it's like to grow up as an Evangelical Christian. He grew up in Washington state attending a non-denominational Evangelical church. His father was/and is a conservative Christian. So, when Matt realized he was gay, it was a traumatic experience Since then, he has been on a journey to heal and find his faith. If you want to hear more about Matt's personal journey, please listen to episode 31. But, in this episode we shift gears a little. I wanted to have Matt back on the show to share his heart and encouragement to Christian parents. This idea came from a final question I asked Matt…
